tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post2612512822814821409..comments2024-03-21T17:09:43.928+11:00Comments on Mal's Gherkin Pram: What a funny postMal Kiely [Lancelots Pram]http://www.blogger.com/profile/09550832509641597913noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-21895008469748744222009-08-30T19:52:02.682+10:002009-08-30T19:52:02.682+10:00Again my friend I understand and I like you am tr...Again my friend I understand and I like you am trying to build up that core of friends... both in the flesh and online.<br /><br />As an avoidant personality it is a challenge maintaining them sometimes (when I crawl inwards). <br /><br />I thought a tattoo on the ankle of a fellow CBT group member says it well "I am what I am"... I think it is both as a reminder to herself and to others. <br /><br />We are all what we are and no one has the right to judge another. As Wendy says don't over analyse things (easy to say f*ng hard to do I know... I am still working on that one).<br /><br />I would like to think I am part of your online core... I can be seedy at times and also may give you the pips :P<br /><br />HugsShelley Heathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179897375126596849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-52751466670330353122009-08-30T17:01:04.637+10:002009-08-30T17:01:04.637+10:00Thank you. [humbled - again]Thank you. [humbled - again]Mal Kiely [Lancelots Pram]https://www.blogger.com/profile/09550832509641597913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-79155966183777084392009-08-30T16:21:01.414+10:002009-08-30T16:21:01.414+10:00Mal as one who can't play or sing...anyone who...Mal as one who can't play or sing...anyone who can I admire. Most of don't have the guts to get up and do what you do. For some people life is harder...it may not be fair, or seem fair but as i said to one of my sisters who's husband was killed in March when she said "its not fair" I agreed with her...its not fair - thats a fact. <br />My youngest is getting married next year...she has been sick most of her 20's and improving a lot...she admitted to me that she did not have one friend to invite to her wedding only relatives...<br /><br />Its not fair....but she accepts this and one day a true friend may turn up other than the rubbish fly by nights...<br /><br />Take heart Mal...it may not seem like it but things have a funny way of working out as long as we are still in life and hopeful.Middle Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962830669606760640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-10090008229264908872009-08-29T11:26:40.939+10:002009-08-29T11:26:40.939+10:00(((HUGS))) some things just have no explanation. ...(((HUGS))) some things just have no explanation. My favorite saying is "It is what it is"♥Caroline♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/00364909664839680979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-13994091559744768712009-08-29T07:18:56.885+10:002009-08-29T07:18:56.885+10:00Hiya Mal...I hear where you're coming from.
I...Hiya Mal...I hear where you're coming from.<br /><br />I got some good advice recently "don't over think things" because it can create more damage than a little.wendishnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10047127677267754194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-26072167841687421012009-08-29T02:08:17.095+10:002009-08-29T02:08:17.095+10:00Mal I feel your pain and sadness coming through in...Mal I feel your pain and sadness coming through in this post. I'm quite a solitary person myself especially since I've retired so I can sort of empathise with how you feel.<br />I've learned to not have expectations of other people then I don't get disappointed. (hugs)ChrisBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06958330170295676200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1899193538457209754.post-77625853245480584592009-08-28T22:45:34.041+10:002009-08-28T22:45:34.041+10:00We love ya Mal! You're real friends are slowly...We love ya Mal! You're real friends are slowly creeping up on you! And I really was broke when the cd came out. I still want one, but Im thinking I want to come and pick it up in person! So I can give you a REAL hug!<br /><br />Karma is only what you allow it to be. Forgive yourself and trust in the greater good. Nothing wrong with a good prayer now and again! ((((BEAR HUGS)))) my friend!karismahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529919522651147308noreply@blogger.com